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The Joy of My Salvation

 

Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation. ~Habakkuk 3:18

(This is the seventh post in a series of planning post, and the sixth post on planning for our homeschool.)

This is an aspect of planning that I resisted for along time.  I didn't want to schedule our year, or do long term planning, because what if we didn't stay on track.  What if we changed our mind and wanted to take a longer trip to Alabama, or let a kid go spend a week at the grandparents, what if we ended up sick with the flu for two weeks.  It would mess up my schedule, the nearer the beginning the year the more it disturbs everything.  I'm pretty type A, after I get it map out, I don't like life upsetting my apple cart.  I've gotten better in the last couple of years with giving myself the grace and flexibility to throw the plan out the window and write another one.  After all if you preach that you love the flexibility and then you aren't flexible what does that say?

Last year was actually the first time I did this.  I sat down, and tried to foresee anything and everything that might affect our homeschool year.  For example every year I want to be done by Memorial Day at the LATEST, if we can be done by the first week of May even better.  We either want to go to Alabama for Memorial Day weekend to see the Balloon Races, or maybe go to Orlando for the FPEA Homeschool Convention.  I typically take off the same week as the cousins for Spring Break, so that one of them can go for a visit.  I usually take the whole month of December off, because there are so many crafty fun things to do, and the kids have no attention with the impending holidays.  I also typically take around two weeks off for Thanksgiving and go to Alabama to visit my family.  Family might come down in the Spring or in the Fall for a visit, but I seldom know that in advance.


In some states you might have a minimum amount of time that you have to call "school."  You might have to log 180 days like we did in PA or perhaps you have to have school for 36 weeks.  You might have to complete a set number of educational hours.  If you have to log weeks, it might be enough to block off several weeks, with some breaks noted, and perhaps allowing enough so that you can always take off a week and tack an extra on the end if you need to.  If you have to log days, you might want to actually count out the days, to be sure that you account for days here and there that you want to take off, whether that's holidays like Labor Day, or your kids' birthdays.  If you have to log hours, you may need to actually do the math to figure out about how many hours a day you plan to do school and then figure up your days accordingly.  Or like me you may subscribe to the educational philosophy of real life learning.  That our children are literally learning all the time, through play and daily life, just as much as they do when they are hitting the books, perhaps even more.  In Florida we aren't required to count days, but I like to.  It gives me a marker, and it always makes me feel like I have accomplished something when I can actually measure how far we've come.


Most states require public school to meet somewhere between 160 and 180 days, they also allow students to miss up to about 15 days of school.  There is also a lot of non-instructional time in school.  There is the changing classes, bathroom breaks, lunch period, PE, and of course the down time in class.  It's not that they are wasting time there, it's just the nature of managing a lot of kids at once.  There is some down time in our school day, where one kid has to wait for me to finish with another before helping them when they get stuck, but the whole we can get our work done in a lot less time during the day.  We also have the flexibility to do some school on the couch when a kid is sick, or skip a day for that one, and have them make it up on Saturday.  Sometimes I double up on lessons so that we can take a pretty day and go to the park.

On average though I try to shoot for around 170 days, or somewhere between 30 and 40 weeks.  Before you say, "But Danielle, that's a huge range!"  Let me tell you a little about how we break down our year.  First I am in the habit of tracking our homeschool year July through June.  That was the breakdown in PA where I started our homeschool journey, and it's been a habit that has stuck.  That means for me, since my goal is to be done early to mid May, I'm going to take off all of June.  I'll do any planning then that I haven't gotten around to yet, I'll reorganize the school schedule.  The kids will watch way too much tv, and we'll visit family in Alabama.  When July rolls around I'll start thinking about educational experiences I can sneak in, without the kids realizing what I'm doing.  We'll have swim lessons, a week at the beach with the extended family, and this year 4H Fun Camp.  They don't realize it, but these are field trips, and great learning experiences.  I just named 4 weeks of learning, 5 days a week, and the beach is actually 7 days.  In August we'll ease back into our routine, starting back getting serious about our chores (can anyone say home ec., it's a vital life skill you know).  I'll pick up math just to make sure they aren't too rusty.  There will still be a ton of Splash Pad days with the local homeschoolers, library trips (we go every other week, since it's a bit of a drive), and there will be a ton of fishing with Daddy.  Until the planting season starts back up in September, he'll be home on Fridays, so we'll take day trips and do lots of "field trips."  By the time I actually start back Tuesday after labor day, I may have as many as 30 "educational" days already in the books.

There are alot of popular options for homeschooler schedules.  You'll meet people who go from Labor Day through Memorial Day because that's the traditional school year.  Those who follow the local school calendar because they have some of their children in school, or they use the local school district in someway.  There are those who go year round, taking a couple of weeks off here and there through the year.  There are lots who will do 6 weeks or 9 weeks on, and one week off.  Then you have some outliers like me.  My husband's busy season runs from Labor Day through middle of February when he is planting, and then from February through middle of May when he is still growing the crop.  Knowing that by far his busiest time of year is October.  We take advantage of his schedule.  He's going to be working 6 or 7 day weeks.  So we frequently log 6 days of school.  Then in the spring when the extracurricular schedule picks up, I can relax a bit.  Some years I've had a longer school year but only had a 4 day school week.


No matter what my upcoming school year is going to look like, I try to map it out.  I take my year at a glance page in my planner, and I circle every Monday for a week that I intend to do school.  I also put a little round sticker with a number on it on each Monday in my monthly spreads.  I then get a rough count of how many days of school that will entail.  I break them up into roughly 10 week periods.  With at least one week off at the end of it.  It doesn't mean anything to the kids, it's just a way for me to plan.  I don't like leaving a unit half finished before Christmas break, or introduce a math concept on Thursday if I'm taking a Spring Break the following week.  I note the different periods with different color dots on my monthly spread, and I number them.  This year I'm anticipating having 13 weeks in term one running from labor day till I stop in December, there will be a gap for Thanksgiving in there though.  I then have 10 weeks in term 2 from New Year's until Spring Break.  Finally there will be 9 weeks in term 3, between Spring Break and the end of our school year.  The first 13 weeks will largely consist of 6 day weeks, while the rest of the year will be 5 day weeks.  And if the grandparents come we'll adjust things.  Anything we don't complete this year, we'll just roll over to the following year.  After all I'm going for mastery, if that takes longer than estimated that's fine, as long as we really learn something.


It's nice to have a loose idea of what our year will look like.  It gives me the ability to look at plans when I want to do something different, and give myself permission to change tack because I can see where I can make adjustments.  Use to I would feel guilty if we were opted for a field trip after I'd already made lesson plans.  I use to beat myself up when I felt too lousy to do school.  Now, I just look and can readily see where I have wiggle room built in, and I can see how much we've already accomplished, and I don't stress as much if something comes up.
9:53 AM No random thoughts
(This is the sixth post in a series of planning post, and the fifth post on planning for our homeschool.)


I can remember the first year that I was homeschooling that choosing curriculum seemed like a daunting task.  How in the world with all those options was I suppose to find the curriculum that would be the perfect fit for my kid.  The golden curriculum that would make everything easier.  And if I didn't find that magical curriculum what if what I bought was a total waste of money, or what if they didn't learn anything at all, or what if it actually made they more confused and made things worse.  Since that time I have figured out that there is no golden curriculum, the leprechauns probably keep it with the rest of the gold at the end of the rainbow, as a tantalizing trick.


These days my favorite part of planning a new school year is deciding on curriculum.  There are several things I look into before choosing curriculum.  I'll tell you a little about how I first began researching curriculum and then I'll give you an overview of my process today.  I have mentioned before, but it bears repeating that I feel like the best resource to start researching curriculum is with Cathy Duffy's books or website.  I started out with her book and learned alot about learning styles to help me narrow down curriculum.  While there is no golden curriculum, I think you will find that there are some that work better for different types of learners and different teachers and different family dynamics.  Now days though I check out anything new I'm thinking about trying on her website.  She isn't affiliated with any of the curriculum companies, she's just giving a well researched and thought out opinion on the products.

I am on several facebook homeschool groups and frequently get ideas about curriculum from there.  When something isn't working well for us I can throw out a question or search old post, and generally find some suggestions either for adjusting what I have, or for something that might be a better fit.  I also regularly read a number of homeschool blogs.  One that I have spent a lot of time reading in the last year is Homeschooling with Dyslexia.  A homeschooling mom of 8, 7 of who have dyslexia, has had tons of ideas and experience with curriculum that I can learn from to use with Britt.  A huge component in homeschooling is being willing to continually learn yourself.  In fact, this probably deserves it's own blog topic, but I never want to become complacent or feel like I know everything there is to know with the kids.  If one of my goals is to encourage lifelong learning, and a love for learning, then I need to model that.  This year, I made a list with some of her suggestions, to check out for different subjects.

So assuming you have thought about your priorities and interest for your upcoming homeschool year.  And assuming you have made some goals for your children, you are ready to dive into curriculum choices.  If you're priority this year for history is world history, and if like me you believe in a chronological approach to history; then when you hear about this AMAZING new history program for American history and the causes leading up to the Civil War, you are just going to make yourself a note for a later date, because it's not on your plan for this year.  Not to say that you might not make some changes.  I started out this year thinking we might do state history for the states we have lived, but changed my mind.  You just don't want to start buying curriculum willy-nilly and end up with 4 types of history that aren't complementary and you can't possibly all use in a year and no math when that was a priority, and have blown through your homeschooling budget.


When I am looking for homeschooling curriculum I'm looking for several different things.  First, I'm looking for things that meet the goals I set for the year.  I'll take math for example.  This year I have a goal for Britt and Ruth to learn multiplication, so a program that focuses on fractions isn't something I'm going to keep on my shortlist for this year.  So even though Math Mammoth is a top ranked program it didn't make the short list.  Next, I find something that lines up with my beliefs about schooling.  In math, I am not a fan of spiral learning, where you continually cycle through material.  I'm a fan of mastery, where a student has to really learn it.  I do like some occasional review though to be sure that the concepts remain in their mind.  So, for example another popular math program, Saxon, doesn't meet that criteria and it doesn't make the short list.  Next, I am looking at things that match up with the kids learning style.  Britt in particular is a very kinetic learner, things he can manipulate with his hands, so I want a math curriculum that works with manipulatives, even in higher grades.  That knocks out another favorite math curriculum Singapore Math.  This year I considered making a change to our math curriculum and had it narrowed down to Math U See the math we have used for the last several years and Teaching Textbooks.  I liked that teaching Textbooks, would let Britt be more independent in his math, that it read the problems aloud and would walk him through how to solve something if he got it wrong.  However, I ultimately decided that it was rigorous  enough and I didn't think it did a good enough job teaching the underlying concepts. I want the kids to do more than just learn the math facts, but have an understanding of mathematical reasoning.  I didn't find the one golden math program, I just narrowed down the field of great choices based on what I want in my child's education.


When I am selecting curriculum for the new year, I also look for things I think will engage the kids.  It doesn't matter how great of a history program I think it is if they are going to be bored to tears.  I have some fantastic history books on my shelves, but they aren't going to be interactive enough for the kids yet.  I need to find a program that really engages them, that works their imagination.  Something that they can get excited about.  I firmly believe the reason that most people hate history is because they were subjected to social studies in drab boring books all through grade school.  In areas like history and science I really like to ask the kids what they are interested in learning about and work those interest into our school.  Britt's first year of school he was obsessed with dinosaurs.  We checked out every book the library had on dinosaurs, for 6 months we read about dinosaurs every day.  By the time Britt turned 5, he could tell you about 30 or 40 different kinds of dinosaurs.  He made his own dinosaur book, dictating things he learned, with us recording their family and finding a picture for each one for him to color.  After that he was interested in the stars and space, so we spent 4 months learning everything about the planets.  I even learned about a number of dwarf planets that I didn't know existed.  That year at the homeschool convention, someone was selling a computer based program about astronomy, and he passed the test for their 4th grade program.  Kids learn and retain things that they are interested in, so use that to your advantage as much as possible.

Next we come to the final consideration that I have when purchasing homeschool curriculum - my budget.  After I've researched everything, and come up with my list, I start hunting for bargain prices.  Math is usually our most expensive subject.  But that is one of the areas in our budget that I'm willing to spend more money on. Science and history are areas that I'm more likely to build my own program out of library books.  There are components that I decide I can do without in a given year, or that I might put off buying.  I've put off buying a timeline that I want to use throughout our homeschooling years with history, for the last two years, but I'm springing for it this year.  There are tons of free or low cost options out there, but most of them are going to require more work on your part.  Now that we are up to 3 students, and I have a baby in the house, I don't want quite as much prep work, so I'm willing to pay a little more in order to have it better planned out.  Some people like a boxed curriculum or online options like FL Flex for this reason, I still like to retain more of the control over our choices, and for me the kids don't fit in neat grade level boxes.


I have a list of what I need to have up front, and what I won't get to right away.  For example, this year I plan to cover the Ancient Greeks and Romans for history.  Since I'm starting with Greece, I can wait to order the other material later in the school year.  Unfortunately for most people a budget is going to be a reality in getting curriculum.  I also prioritize my list, so I know what things I want to buy first.  And there are times, that I will go back to my second curriculum option instead of my first curriculum because it's a cheaper alternative.  There are also times that I go shopping for curriculum in my cabinet of handme downs, or find cheap or free options at used curriculum sales, or on the free table at homeschool gatherings.  This year is already shaping up to be my most expensive year yet, if we make it through everything I have planned, so Gary will probably require me to do some editing to my list.

A final note, on my very favorite thing to do though when I have a list of possible programs, is go to a Homeschool Convention.  There is nothing like being able to actually flip through books and materials, and to talk to the vendors.  Our first year I debated between Right Start Math and Math U See.  I talked with both of the booths, and after talking with Mr. Steve Deme the man who created Math U See, I felt it was the best fit for us.  The kids remember meeting him, and they watch his videos with their lessons.  They frequently tell people that Mr. Steve is their math teacher, not me.  When you are able to met the families and individuals who have crafted curriculum, you can learn alot about their educational philosophy and passion in creating a product, and if it will fit what you are looking for.

1:48 PM No random thoughts
(This is the fifth post in a series of planning post, and the fourth post on planning for our homeschool.)


I was going to write about choosing curriculum today, but I'll save that for tomorrow afternoon.  I received a message this morning with a question about last night's post.  This mom wrote, "How do I determine what my child is ready for or capable of when setting goals for the next year?"  Ironically enough I had a scribbled note to remind me to talk about that in last night's post, but I completely forgot.  So before continuing on, I wanted to talk about setting appropriate goals.

As a parent, who spends copious amounts of time with your child, no one is going to know them like you do.  You know their likes and dislikes, you know what drives them, you know their strengths and weaknesses.  These things are invaluable in figuring out pretty much everything about homeschooling what goals to set, what kind of curriculum to buy, how fast to move through material. Everything.  To give you an idea of what that looks like, I ask the kids for permission to talk a little bit about their struggles and strengths when goal setting.


Last year after a particularly rough school year, we had some testing done with Britt.  We received the diagnosis of dyslexia and ADHD along with some other delays related to those two.  It is something I've not written about on the blogspot yet, because Britt hasn't been comfortable talking about it or sharing it with anyone outside of immediate family until very, very recently.  This greatly affects my goal setting.  Understanding that he has to work hard to read, and that it will always be more work for him, means that I'm going to need to break up our reading goals into smaller more manageable chunks.  I'm going to want to stretch him without pushing him to a breaking point.  It also means that some of the goals I set for him relate more directly to strengthening his weak areas, like executive functioning skills, working at getting him to plan and execute an idea on his own.  He also needs some Occupational therapy, so that is an area we are working on.  This will affect how neat his handwriting is and how long it might take him to learn to ride a bike.  Rather than yell at him for being 9 years old and still so messy or uncoordinated, I work with him at the level he is at, not some arbitrary point I think he should at.  It also means that we might work on some skills in an unconventional way.  For example, since reading is such hard work for Britt.  One of the ways he has worked on it this year, is by reading in his newest wii game.  It involves him accomplishing quest, which means he needs to be able to read clues, and talk to people to figure out the next step of the game.  This is something he enjoys and it is something that strengthens his reading skills.  Because if he misses a word, he has to read it again, to understand what it is that he needs to do.  In other areas like math he is a whiz, but I make allowances to help him read word problems and directions.


Ruth works with Britt in most things, even though she is 18 months younger than he is.  She has some challenges with speech which have really affected her spelling ability.  For example she doesn't hear or pronounce short e and short i any differently.  She also still cannot really differentiate between th and f sounds, or between w, r, and l.  This means her spelling work, and by extension her letter writing and journaling, are often difficult to decipher.  It means that she has speech therapy goals, and spends more time working on these areas, that Britt typically breezes through.  Likewise, as she completes work that he is still working on, I move her on, rather than drag her down.

Rebecca is already proving to be a different type of challenge.  She is mastering concepts much faster than Britt or Ruth did.  This past year, I didn't even intend to do school with her.  I had an odd assortment of hand-me down preK, kindergarten, and 1st grade workbooks.  Mostly the kind of things you find at the Dollar Store, or in Walmart.  She has breezed through them, and insisted I start teaching her to read for her 5th birthday.  She has mastered short vowel words and is already working on long vowels and special phonics sounds, all this in only about 2 months.  Considering that she knew most of her letter sounds at the beginning of the year but almost none of their names, I'm shocked at the progress.  For her I need to be more challenging and expect to cover material at a faster pace.  I will need to work her goals that she doesn't begin to feel bored with school.  I will also want to look ahead and be sure that we challenge her enough that she doesn't give up the first time she does encounter something difficult because everything has come too easy to her.



You will notice what I HAVEN'T told you to do.  I have not said, pull up your states standards for your child's grade.  I have not said, run down to the library and pick up a copy of "What your 1st Grader Needs to Know" in order to copy your goals.  I have checked out these books several years, and while sometimes they give me ideas of areas I might have over looked, they also typically make me feel inept because there's so much I don't have time to cover, or so much that the kids aren't ready for.  So, check them out if you want a starting point for some ideas, but don't be a slave to someone else's goals.  Many of the academic goals are arbitrary, why does an 9 year old need to learn about weather, why not a 7 year old or a 11 year old?  Others are written to keep a classroom of 25 moving together in a predictable fashion so that they all can continue moving together next year.  Nothing wrong with that but a necessity when you consider the number of students under different teachers moving up through a large school over multiple grade levels.  What you need to remember though, is the greatest advantage to homeschooling is moving at your child's speed and ability.  The custom education you can provide is only a benefit though, if you actually customize and adjust it for each child.


Britt is generally working on grade level, though he is behind for reading.  Ruth is generally working ahead of grade level, but she is pretty much on her grade level for reading.  Rebecca is definitely ahead of grade level right now.  However, these numbers don't really mean much for us.  Especially when you consider that we use a range of material our Phonics book was published in 1983, and one of our history resources that I want to use is coming out later this year for the first time.  What a 4th grader should know has changed alot over those 35 years.  Other curriculum such as Math U See doesn't even use grade levels.  I would highly encourage you to take the opportunity to think about where you'd like to see your kid progress to in the coming you; what their abilities, skills, and interest are; and what weaknesses you will need to work on or compensate for.


4:09 PM No random thoughts
(This is the fourth post in a series of planning post, and the third post on planning for our homeschool.)

Setting yearly goals for our homeschool is something that I have been doing from the beginning.  In PA we were required to submit our objectives each year, and while these can be very vague, I felt that it was to my benefit to really consider what I wanted to get out of our homeschooling year, and to come up with some detailed objectives.  Those I couched in all the "high falutin" very academic jargon.  However, now that we are in Florida, a state that doesn't require objectives, I still find a benefit in goal setting.  Now they are much simpler, and to be honest, sometimes I think the entire purpose of the academic speak is to make us look smart, and confuse outsiders.

For the upcoming school year, I find myself months before thinking about what my end goal is.  I can see weaknesses and strengths as they come up.  I can see interests that the kids are developing, and often think of projects or future tie ins.  I make note of this stuff as I go, and I kinda ponder where I want to go next.  So, when I get ready to actually sit down and plan for the following year, I'm not really starting from a blank slate.  Sometimes I even go back and compare this year's goals to what we have managed to accomplish.  I have spent the last four nights in a row, roughing out goals for our three students for the 2018-2019 school year.  And this post is to share something about that process.


For me, our focus at this age, and at our children's ability levels is math and reading, and something in particular to interest them.  I sat down the first night and set some math goals.  These after you get started are in some ways obvious.  This year, Britt and Ruth mastered adding and subtracting large numbers.  In fact they finished up math in February.  The next thing obviously will be to tackle multiplication and division.  I also worked on science goals.  We have all but ignored science for the last two years, opting for history instead.  I would like to add back in some general life science, and I happen to have a teacher book, and three unused copies of student workbooks that were passed down to me, that will fit the bill.


The second night I set down to set some goals for history.  This area right now is where we devote much of our time, outside of those two core areas.  History is something that I'm passionate about, and that the kids have really enjoyed thus far.  It's a way for them to work on many of their language art skills in a fun way.  It's a way that we have incorporated bible studies, and cultural references.  I have over planned this area.  You may find that you fall at the end of the spectrum in that you don't plan enough, or that you planned more than could be reasonably accomplished in 3 school years.  I have had to gradually learn (with the obsessive personality that I have), that I'm not failing if we don't cover everything I planned in a give school year.  I'll talk about this more when I talk about scheduling, but in this situation, I want to give myself plenty of options, and write down everything we would do in a perfect, super industrious school year.


The third night, I spent twice as much time as the two previous nights really working on language arts goals.  For me the most important is reading, after that would probably be handwriting, and composition (though right now we do most of our composition work orally, such as dictating blogs).  We also introduced spelling this year, and continue to work in grammar.  This would also include our nearly daily read alouds, and speech therapy for Ruth.  To me, this is the single most essential part of homeschooling, and it is something that I devote alot of time into during our homeschool day, and alot of time studying up on in my evenings.  I really want to flesh out what I most want to focus on here.

The final night I spend trying to think of any other areas that I think need work, that don't fall into the neatly academic areas.  Things like character work, or chores, or bible studies, music and art, extracurricular clubs or projects we want to do.  Some of these goals are really ambitious like Rebecca memorizing 10 new bible verses this year.  Some are more notes, plan to work with her on learning to ride a bike.  All through this process I'm typically trying to get input from Gary, but as a very hands off "principal" he doesn't typically have much to add.  So this is the night where I annoy him, until he agrees to discuss some of my concerns and bounce around some possible solutions or adjustments.

Finally, tonight, I sat down and wrote up everything, passed it over to Gary for a once over, and he told me as usual, looks good but pretty ambitious, I doubt you get to everything.  Which will lead me to the next step of the process - curriculum choices.


11:26 PM No random thoughts


We have been studying about ancient India in history and the moon in science this week.  In ancient India they saw a hare on the moon, and we read the story of how the hare came to be on the moon.  What do the markings of the moon look like to you?  Invent your own story about the areas of light and dark, or to explain some other aspect of the moon, such as why it changes shape.  (from "Tales of the Shimmering Sky" by Susan Milord.)

Long ago the moon was happy, but then it turned sad.  He was sad because he was lonely.  So every day he was so sad that he got smaller and smaller.  Until he disappeared.  On earth horse and puppy missed the moon, so they said to the moon, will you please turn happy again, so we can see you again.  We love you and miss seeing you.  Moon felt happy because someone loved him, so he wasn't lonely anymore.  So he growed bigger and bigger and bigger again, until he was giant.  So now anytime moon gets sad, he doesn't stay sad because he has some friends.  The end.


3:58 PM No random thoughts
We have been studying about ancient India in history and the moon in science this week.  In ancient India they saw a hare on the moon, and we read the story of how the hare came to be on the moon.  What do the markings of the moon look like to you?  Invent your own story about the areas of light and dark, or to explain some other aspect of the moon, such as why it changes shape.  (from "Tales of the Shimmering Sky" by Susan Milord.)

One morning I goed outside, and in the moon I found a cat.  It was a little cat, but it was a cat.  This is why I think the cat got on the moon.  There was this one cat that came around this old man's house.  And this old man was lonely.  The cat would come and comfort him everyday.  Everyday he would feed it and take care of it.  One day a tiger came around and the old man was afraid that the cat would be eaten.  So, he went into the forest to find the cat and warn him about the tiger that was lurking.  But the old man went so far into the forest that he got lost.  Soon it was almost dark in the forest.  And the tiger decided he would rather eat the person than the cat.  So, when it was dark the old man hid in a cave, but when he went in he found the cat.  And then they heard a growl, so they ran out of the cave, because the cave belonged to a vicious bear.  They grabbed sticks and thought that they had scared away the bear, but it wasn't them who scared the bear away.  Behind them was the tiger that ruled the forest.  And the cat jumped in front of the man so that the tiger did not get close to him.  The cat looked at the tiger, like "back off!"  The cat nodded like go, and the man goed.  The next night was a full moon, and he saw the very cat that he liked on the face of the moon.  THE END (in all big letters).


10:07 PM No random thoughts
We have been studying about ancient India in history and the moon in science this week.  In ancient India they saw a hare on the moon, and we read the story of how the hare came to be on the moon.  What do the markings of the moon look like to you?  Invent your own story about the areas of light and dark, or to explain some other aspect of the moon, such as why it changes shape.  (from "Tales of the Shimmering Sky" by Susan Milord.)

I see a bison on the moon.  I believe that the bison was good, because he made the land flat.  He lead the bisons to a new place, because there were many poachers and hunters around.  But the new place was very rocky and mountainous, and it rained alot, so they didn't have much to eat.  He tried to plant food, but it didn't work out so good.  One they didn't have the tools, second they didn't have hands to hold tools, and the land wasn't very good for planting.  So, he went to the leader of the men with a plan to make the land better for men and bison.  He decided to have the whole herd run together to smash the rocks, until the land was flat and good to grow things.  Then the men used tools to plant seeds.  So ever since then the bison and the people have had plenty to eat.  God saw that he was good and helpful, so he put him on the moon to remind others to be nice and care for other people and animals.  The end.


8:27 PM No random thoughts
4-24, 11 months old.
Katherine,

My how big you are getting.  This weekend I finally washed the 9-12 month clothes and moved you up from the 6-9 month clothes.  You were too long for the others, but less than half of the new pants will stay up on your tiny little waist.  You are walking more and more these days.  You managed 10 steps last night before you fell.  You fall, but as soon as you plop down you stand back up and set off again.  Of course when you are in a hurry you still resort to crawling, at which you are unbelievably fast.  And anytime we try to video you walking, you think it's an invitation to crawl and grab the phone.

4-1, Baby's first Easter
You have also sprouted 3 new teeth in the last week.  I saw two barely peaking through on Wednesday, and another beside them on Friday.  That should make eating easier.  Some days you eat twice, some days you eat once, some days you don't eat food at all, just take bottles.  On that note we have finally found something you don't like - fresh, uncooked tomatoes.  You make the worst face, and out it goes.  When we run out of the formula on hand we plan to swap you over to milk.  You have taken very well to a sippy cup, the only problem is that sometimes you seem to need a refill as soon as you down it, so at night we have gone back to using a bottle at bedtime, since it holds more.

4-1, Getting into her Easter basket.

You are babbling quite a bit these days.  You make m sounds when you are upset, but use d and other hard consenants when you are just talking.  You know who "da-da" is.  You will look for him when I ask and head for him.  You also know who Momma is when the kids ask.  You are definitely saying something like "Bwa-Bwa" for Britt as well.  It is fun to see you beginning to understand what is being said to you.  When I tell you "no, no" you stop what you are doing to shake your head no.  It is hysterical.  You don't have a clue that it means no, you think it means shake your head.  But because you stop to do it, I rarely have to pop your leg or really fuss at you.  Sometimes when we say "yes, yes, yes" you grin and shake your head no as if to argue with us.  But often you will bounce up and down.  You don't nod, but you do bounce, which also tickles the kids.  We haven't been able to get you to wave, but just a minute ago, trying to get your daddy's attention, you called him, stretched out your arm, and openned and closed your hand, one finger at a time, several times.  I'm calling it waving.  I also can only rarely get you to patty-cake.  If I sing it to you you give me your hands, but don't seem to want to do it for yourself.  And if I trot you and sing that song, you will bounce after two or three times through, if I won't bounce you.

4-1, At the Varnum Family Easter.
The biggest happenings of the last month have been your first Easter.  You liked picking up and pulling apart the Easter eggs.  They seem to be interesting to chew on, and make lots of noise when you crawl around the house with them in your hand.  Since you weren't old enough to hunt eggs, I went to play softball with everyone else, and missed out on you playing with them when they took you off with the other kids.

4-7, At the Black Gold Children's fishing tournament.
You only take one nap a day, you dropped the second nap several months ago.  You usually go down between noon and 12:30 and stay down for almost three hours.  I try my best to get all the kids reading done during that time, and get whatever desk work I want done then.  Because you my child not only love to chew on computer cords and eat paper, but you love all things office supply.  Perhaps you are a child after my own heart.  You rummage through my pens, steal all my envelopes, and climb in and out of the bottom of my desk and rolling cart as if it is your own personal jungle gym.  I have taken the old empty ink cartridge out of a pen, and given it to you so that you have your very own pen.  You will take it around the house, or sit next to the desk playing with it.  It may be your current favorite toy.


It has gotten difficult to read to you in the last month.  You want to hold the book, attempt to rip out the pages, or eat the book.  And yet, you seem to get really mad if we leave you in the floor when we are reading, or if someone other than me holds you out of reach of the book.  You continue to like to crawl or cruise or sometimes even walk behind me when I walk round and round the table check the kids work during school time.

4-8, Ruth, Momma with Kate, and Rebecca.
You still adore your siblings, and are happy with pretty much any one.  You remind a shockingly happy baby.  You get a little fussy when you are getting tired, but it's more of a wallow around like you can't get comfortable and complain a bit.  Sometimes you get a little fussy when you are ready for another cup, but even then, it's not full blown crying.  You get most offended when we put you down in the floor and leave the room, even that is usually pretty short lived.  Either because you choose to follow us, or because you find something else to do.  We love you so very much, and thank God for you.

Love,
Momma
4-24, No time for pictures, Momma, I want my cup now.


8:04 PM No random thoughts
(This is the third post in a series of planning post, and the second post on planning for our homeschool.)


For me this step is indispensable.  Though you may decide it's not really for you.  And that's ok, one of the big keys to successful planning, is finding a system that works for you.  Otherwise, you simply aren't going to use it.  I explained back in our first post, that for me, it needs to be fun and colorful, or I'm not going to use it.  That may not be true for you.  I have discovered in the planning community, that there are those who are "no white space" planners, they need every inch covered with stickers and washi and color to use their planners.  That doesn't work for me because I can't see what's going on.  There are those that are "pen only" or black and white planners, for me I need more than a pen to organize my thoughts, and black and white is boring, and I get away from planning, and as a result my time, life, our schooling, falls into chaos.  For me part of planning is decorating, and organizing with stickers, washi, colorful pens.  You may just need a notebook, and some colorful pens.  You may use washi to divide up a page, but only use a pencil or pen for all your notes.  The real goal for today, is to organize your planner, and section it out so that it will hold everything you decided that you needed.  I've begun laying out my homeschool planner for next year, so I'll share some photos from it.  If you find it hard to imagine what all you might need, or how you might use it, I'll suggest you tube.  When I decided to try the Erin Condren Teacher Planner, there were several pages that I knew wouldn't really work for me as a homeschooler.  But I found lots of other homeschoolers had done videos or blog post showing how they reworked pages to fit their needs.  There are also free printables that you might get online, such as here at Life of a Homeschool Mom, to print up and glue into your planner.  I personally like to print mine on full page labels, and put them in like a sticker sheet when I add a whole page like that.


So, I have a list of everything I want to be sure I keep in my planner.  And after our last post I'm going to assume you do to.  Remember this may be more or less than what you've done before, and it may change every year.  I showed where my planning has changed alot of the five years we've been homeschooling.  This year I know that I want the following:
  1. A fun cover page.
  2. Plenty of room for our reading list (and I mean PLENTY).
  3. Room also for list of videos and websites that we use.
  4. Some goal setting pages.
  5. A place to break those goals down into monthly forecasting.
  6. A  space to make some notes about the curriculum we are using.
  7. A place to store important homeschool contact info that I don't regularly use.
  8. A page for library information.
  9. Monthly calendars.
  10. Weekly Lesson planning pages.
  11. Note pages for reviewing progress through the year.
  12. A place to record grades.
  13. A place to record field trips.
  14. Maybe a place to put the chore charts or add some pictures.
  15. A folder and/or page protectors for the loss pages I need to save or add.
It sounds like a lot, but I want everything that relates to our homeschooling in one spot.  I want to be able to easily find something without it taking me alot of time.  I also want it to be fun and cute.  This doubles for our family as a nice record of what kids were doing, where they were developmentally.  I always get a kick of flipping back through at the end of the year and seeing the cute things they said, or thought.  When they first had that break through moment with reading or finally grasped a math concept that had been giving them trouble.  One of the greatest blessings for homeschooling, is getting to see those moments with your kids.  It's every bit as fun as the first time they said Momma or started walking, or blew you a kiss.


One more shameless plug for the ECTP.  It has plenty of room for all of this, some years I haven't even used all the pages.  It comes with a folder and the page protectors.  It also comes with tabs, so it's super easy to find what you want to find.  I have contemplated making my own planner out of a notebook, but sturdy tabs that don't rip off the pages, are one of my biggest deterrents to that.  I really doubt that I will ever find another planner that I like better for our needs or that is a better quality.


So, here's where I start with our yearly planning.  I flip through the planner and try to see which pages would make the best layout for those categories.  I typically use a lot of post it notes at first to map out what I'm going to put where, so that I can move things around.  And once I have an idea of what I want, I pull out my washi and stickers and set it all up.  A few notes about my supplies.  I love washi it's not just decorative, but it's great for dividing up things on a page, and most of the time, unless it's been on the page forever, I can always pull it up and move it, in contrast to using a pen or marker.  Because then it's there, and while you can use white out to cover it up.  It never looks quite right.  I also have some chalkboard washi, that I can write on with a chalkpen and then erase.  I have used it on all of my reading list headers.  So if I end up using more history books than I thought I would, but not as many science books, I can change the header on the page in the middle of the year, no problem.  I also color code for each kid in our planner.  So it's import to me to be able to use that throughout the book.  Britt's color is orange, Ruth's is pink, Rebecca's is purple, and I'm using teal for Kate this year.  For things that we all do together, I most often note in black.  I also use small label stickers like the ones that come in the planner, to put things like field trips and such on.  If things change I can peal those up, and still have a practically clean box there.  In the past I have used frixion pens in my teacher planner, because I can color code, and it's easier to see and read than pencil because it doesn't smudge.  BUT I can still erase and move lesson plans around.


So, after I have planned out where I want to put everything, I set up the pages.  Many of the pages I listed are really record keeping or organizing pages for me.  I have mentioned in Florida I'm supposed to keep a long of reading materials used.  So I have several pages, set aside where I write down every book we read.  A blank page wouldn't work well for this, I need something with alot of lines.  (Though I am considering a more artistic way to record this for my personal reading in my personal planner.)  Books that only one of the kids use I also mark with their color.  I also have a check box, so that I can note when they are due back at the library and check off when we get it turned in.  We have NEVER lost a library book this way, and it helps cut down on the overdue fines too.



The yearly goal setting and the monthly pages allow me to check back through the year, and see if we are meeting our goals.  Sometimes we are and that's great.  Sometimes we are even ahead, and I know which subjects we can pause, if we need to spend more time elsewhere, without missing out on anything I wanted to cover.  Sometimes I can see that what I planned was unreasonable, and we aren't going to cover everything this year.  But either way, I can see progress, so it helps with feeling like we haven't accomplished anything when we get to the end of the year.  For this the page with some lines for each month is helpful to organize, and it lets me find it quicker, and cover more ground than a page of just lined notebook pages would.


On the calendar pages, I can put in things that I know will affect our homeschooling routine, or things that I think would be great to do to add to our homeschooling year.  This is something I use weekly as I plan our our lessons, because I obviously can't plan a full day of work on a day that we plan to be gone for 6 hours.  Setting everything up is something I typically do over a week.  I don't rush this.  To be honest it's one of the funner parts of planning, decorating and thinking about what our next year will look like.  And this is something I'll continue tweaking throughout the first several months of school.  The important thing for me, is to get my big things set up and ready to work.




9:43 PM No random thoughts
(This is the second post in a series of planning post, and the first post on planning for our homeschool.)


So, let's say that you are new to homeschooling, and everything feels overwhelming.  For whatever reason, you've decided that the best thing for your family at this point is homeschooling.  Everyone comes to it for different reasons.  I've heard everything from better academics, to decreased bullying, to strengthening family relationships, to religious training.  Whatever the reason you come to homeschooling, but especially if it is a suddenly made decision, it can be overwhelming.  Parents are always the ones ultimately responsible for their child's education, but when you are hiring it out to the local school it doesn't feel quite as weighty.  So now you are sitting here trying to decide what to teach, when to teach it, how to teach it.  You have a million choices of curriculum, decisions to make on what co-ops or extracurriculars to pursue, all while there is the lurking doubt in the back of your mind that you are really ruining your children.  So for me, the first step is to get a planner, and perhaps a notebook, so that you have something to figure out this out in.


Our first year homeschooling 2013-2014, I pulled out a spiral notebook from a cabinet somewhere, and started making list.  I wrote down anything anyone suggested, so that I could look into it.  I started out with Cathy Duffy's book, and while her website is a great resource for reviewing curriculum, her book has the added benefit of exploring different methods of homeschooling.  I found that knowing my own learning style and my own tendencies where just as important as figuring out the kids learning styles.  After narrowing down what all we wanted to try out, I got a basic planner, where I mostly record what we did in a given day.  I didn't really plan ahead at that point.  Britt was four at the beginning of that school year and so it was really good to be able to go with the flow.


However, keeping a notebook and a small planner wasn't giving me enough room and it didn't help me keep everything in one place.  Plus the following year, 2014-2015 I wanted to do more planning ahead.  So I bought the Hey Momma Homeschool Planner.  It gave me note pages that I used in looking for new curriculum, a price page for budgeting for our homeschool year, and lesson planning pages, in addition to the calendar that the old planner gave me.  However, this didn't give me enough pages to track everything I wanted to track to use as our portfolio.  (For more about how I planned those first two years, you can visit this old post.)


The following year 2015-2016, I finally decided to spend the money on an Erin Condren Teacher Planner.  This year I really got into a planning grove.  I sat down before the year began and determined what all I needed in a homeschool planner.  I set a few goals for the year, set up pages for our reading log, for field trips, and a section for the kids chore charts.  The only problem with planning that year was the loss of our fourth child, and as a result a rather disorganized school year.  The set up was "planner peace" however, and I used an ECTP the following year in 2016-2017 as well.



This year, for 2017-2016, I tried using just an Erin Condren vertical life planner in conjunction with a command center.  I thought it might be nice to have something smaller, and like I've always wanted to have the lesson plans by the month, and not separate.  It's worked well, but I really feel like I need the extra space with three different sets of lesson plans, so I'm returning back to the ECTP for next year.


All this to say.  The first step in planning, is to figure out what you are planning for.  And to realize that this may change over time.  Currently I set some yearly goals, so I need a page for goal setting.  I I then break those down, and figure out what is the best way to accomplish those goals, I do this by doing some monthly forecasting.  This is also largely influenced by how many school days we are going to have in a given month, so I also take the time to tentatively plan our school days.  I make note of any field trips I know we are taking, or time that I know we will be traveling and taking off.  I plan out then what curriculum I need to buy, or anything new I need to invest in.  I set up pages to record our reading list, our field trips, anything I test or grade the children on.  Finally I come up with a rough schedule for our day.  This is something that I haven't done every year, there are times and seasons when it works better to have one, and times where it doesn't work well.


After I have done all of this I can start making detailed lesson plans.  In the past I have planned a month at a time, or a week at a time, this can be rather variable, since there are times where your child will move through material faster than you anticipated, or where they just aren't getting something and you have to stay with it much longer than planned, or even shelve it for a time.  The key is to remember that one of the greatest benefits to homeschooling is flexibility, and not become a slave to your schedule.


I will talk about all of these areas in greater depth, but the first step is to really evaluate what you are planning for.  Is this just for your benefit, or will your child be reading their own assignments out from this, or will this also serve as part of your legal requirements?  Do you want daily lesson plans, or just some note pages to record your thoughts on how your child is doing?  Do you have a need to track hours or days, and need a calendar or log for that?  Do you need a reading list?  If so do you want space to mark what is a library book and when it is due back?  Do you want to color code subjects for a single child, or maybe color code for multiple children?  Do you prefer a simple streamlined look of only black pen.  Do you want to be able to erase and move things around.  If you are planning ahead how might you mark what is accomplished or what you didn't get to?  Expect to have some trial and error, and be willing to change directions if necessary.  But spending some time thinking about these things will help you set up a system that works for you.  I have found watching youtube videos or reading post about how other plan to be a great source of inspiration.  There are always some great ideas that I end up implementing, and then there are also some things, that just don't work for our family.


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