
When I went to bed I didn't see anything outside, and when I woke up it was a normal day, and we went to Church. When I got back Momma told me I had a Christmas surprise. I got to play for an hour and a half that day, and Ruth and I played for over 3 hours yesterday, but we couldn't play today because it rained all day. I'll just show you the video now.
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From our house to yours Merry Christmas! We appreciate each and everyone of you, from those we see each week, to those we only get to see a time or two a year. We are so thankful for our family and our friends!
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If you don't know you can track Santa across the night sky with a little help from Norad. They've been doing this since 1955, when a misprint in a Sear's ad gave out the number to that little red phone. (You know they one the pentagon uses to issue the orders to nuke the old Soviet Union.) Colonel Harry Shoup quickly caught on and he and his fellow elves gave phone updates to children and radio stations. Today you can track Santa online and by phone. Colonel Shoup has since passed away, but below he tells the story of that first call.
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Momma says I should share some of the memorable things I've said over the last few weeks, so I here it goes...
I spend 75% of my day yelling, "Come on, baby Ruth. Come on, Ruth. Come oooonnnnn, baby Ruffie!!!" I drag Ruth every where with me. She's a good wingman.
Every time we get into the car I am convince that we are going to either "church, e-maw's house, or to town." When we go to town I know it means that "Alright! We are going to Brudder Chris's house" or we are going to the "ocery store for a cookie!" Every time we get back home and start pulling down our dirt road, I'm convinced we are finally at "emaw and Mister's house!"
For over a month I've been insisting to anyone who asks that it's "Joey the Snowman". Then while we were looking at Christmas lights last week Momma pointed and said, there's Joey. I laughed and her and said, "No, that Fwosty tha Snowman."
Momma says I only have two answer to everything. I either say "ohhhhh, okay" (to which Momma somehow always seems to know, I don't have a clue what she means) or I say "Or not" (Momma says it's smartalecky but sometimes I catch her grinning).
Daddy says it's even more annoying the way I randomly insert into every conversations "sisteenmoredays". Which they finally figured out was me saying sixteen more days. I've been saying this ever since before Thanksgiving when Momma told it was sixteen more days until we go to Alabama. She's been counting down the days with me until Christmas, but I'm still insisting it's "sisteenmoredays".
Today Momma got upset and was crying and I climbed up in her lap, and brushed her hair with my comb, and asked her "What's wrong, Momma. Why you cryin?" She gave me a big hug and laughed. She's so confusing, but Daddy says all women are.
Speaking of Daddy, he likes our Netflicks. He'll pick a show and watch all the episodes from every season, before he picks a new show. I can tell by the music when he's watching "Daddy's music". He was watching "Deep Space 9," now the music changed, and Momma says it's called "How I Met Your Mother".
Maybe Daddy's favorite story though is how I sing at the top of my lungs. Momma says it's made up words, but she just doesn't understand me. Daddy says I'm a note behind him, and sometimes it throws him off. But I know that they laugh because they are so happy that I like to sing with them at Church. After every song I always tell Momma "That's a GREAT song, Momma. Great song!"
Momma says her favorite thing I say is that I randomly come up, crawl up in the chair by her, snuggle up against her, throw my arms around her and say, "Momma. I wuv you! I wuv you, Momma." Then when she hugs me back, and says "I love you, Britt." Then I whisper, "I wuv you, too Momma."
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While we were at Grandmother and Granddaddy's for Thanksgiving, they pulled out the singing fish. It's something they do pretty much every trip up. I'm told that it started because Britt was scared to death, but fascinated with the thing. I don't know what he thinks is so scary about it. I like it, it's fun to dance with the fish. Of course, Momma tells me that I like to dance with anything that sings or makes music. I guess she's probably right.
The only thing I'm not sure that I like about that fish, is that one time, he kissed me. I was sitting there dancing and bouncing around just like usual, and that impetuous fish, just swung his face around and kissed me on the head. I stayed a little further away from him after that. He's a slippery fellow, not to be trusted.
The only thing I'm not sure that I like about that fish, is that one time, he kissed me. I was sitting there dancing and bouncing around just like usual, and that impetuous fish, just swung his face around and kissed me on the head. I stayed a little further away from him after that. He's a slippery fellow, not to be trusted.
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I love to go to the park. We don't go anywhere near enough. I like the swings, and the slides. I especially like it when Momma goes down the slide with me. I like to run in circles and dig in the mulch. I like everything about the park. While we were at Grumps and Ahna's house, we went to Wilson-Morgan Park. It's a great park, with lots of tunnels, slides, stuff to climb on, and swings. It even had a swing with a recliner! I had a great time playing. Ruth liked it too, until she got too sleepy.
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We are in full swing for Christmas here at our house. The morning after arriving home from Texas, we headed down to Home Depot with Memaw and Mister, to pick out a tree on the first. Britt wanted to take almost every single tree home from the store. Gary and I found a GREAT tree our first pick. I like the Douglas firs better than the Fraiser firs because they have longer needles. While Memaw and Mister picked them out one, Britt and Ruth ran around the tent playing with the twine they cut off of the trees.
That evening after finally arriving back home, we began to decorate. The only draw back to the Douglas firs, is that because they have longer needles, their branches aren't as sturdy. They are a bit more flexible, making it a little bit more difficult to hang the heavier ornaments. Britt needed quite a bit of help. Ruth was mostly content to spend the time wallowing on whichever parent was sitting in the floor to help Britt. After getting the kids in bed I hung the rest of the ornaments up high, hung up the wreath, and decorated our mantle.
The next two days we spent trying to revive Christmas lights, exchange old ones for new ones, and hanging them on the house. I love the happy look for twinkling lights when we pull in the driveway after being gone all day, it's almost like the house is welcoming us back. Britt really loves to look for the Christmas lights this year, and is quick to point them out to Ruth. She is once again this year thrilled to watch the lights. Last year as a 4 month old she would lay under the tree and just stare, this year she feels the need to walk from side to side around the tree, touching each light and ornament within her reach.
The next two days we spent trying to revive Christmas lights, exchange old ones for new ones, and hanging them on the house. I love the happy look for twinkling lights when we pull in the driveway after being gone all day, it's almost like the house is welcoming us back. Britt really loves to look for the Christmas lights this year, and is quick to point them out to Ruth. She is once again this year thrilled to watch the lights. Last year as a 4 month old she would lay under the tree and just stare, this year she feels the need to walk from side to side around the tree, touching each light and ornament within her reach.
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Gary - I spent the entire ride, the entire long nine hours telling myself, "Are you crazy? You told her you were coming, you can't turn around and go home now!" I arrived, and it took me 30 mins to clean up, buy her favorite flowers, and drove around to make sure that she wasn't working the drive through. I finally got up the courage to actually walk into the store, and then I ordered 200 chicken nuggets. Don't you know it, I got no free chicken nuggets and I only got to spend 8 minutes with her before heading to her house to spend 8 hours with her family. At 2:30 in the morning, someone finally showed up. She said, hang on a few minutes and she went to take a 25 minute shower where I could here her singing church songs. And as the great story teller Forest Gump would say and "And that's all I got to say about that story."
Dani - We visited over my supper break and the 30 minutes passed far too quickly. I can remember walking back into the kitchen and telling one of the girls that I worked with that he was it. I just knew it. I called home and told him that he was on his way. And like my father before me, I told them if they ran him off before I got home that I would kill them all. When I made it home that night around 2:30am, I had to hop in the shower after all I couldn't go in there to talk to him in a tacky Wendy's uniform smelling like chicken nuggets and hamburgers. We spent Saturday talking, visiting, playing games, and reluctantly called it a weekend on Sunday evening. The best part of the weekend was the ride with Gary back to Atlanta and we talked about a little bit of everything. Our dreams and fears, dark moments, and funny things. We were so busy talking that Daddy called to remind us to find a restaurant for supper, and we had already passed all the good places. We said good-bye after a quick supper at Long John Silver's, and Gary continued back to Florida, and Daddy and I headed to South Carolina to visit grad schools. I was on cloud nine.
Gary - So, I find out that Danielle and her dad are going to some loser school on Monday, and that they will be traveling in the same direction that I will travel. So, Danielle and I were able to ride together all the way to Atlanta, Georgia. I had already passed my turn off onto I-75, and we stopped at the classy Long John Silver's. About 30 seconds later her daddy pulled in and he paid for her supper and she never kissed me. She went North and I went South. And less than a month later, I bought her a ring.

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Then on the way up to Alabama last weekend, I was reading the sixth Mitford novel by Jan Karon (great books by the way), and the pastor in the books, had gone through a hard spell with a diabetic coma, an accident that seriously injured a pedestrian, and a general sense of despair and depression. Near the end of the book while studying for a sermon, at the 12th hour, so to speak, he found the Lord giving him his topic, I Thessalonians 5:18 "In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you." His point in his following sermon, was that this verse doesn't say give thanks when everything is going great, or give thanks when you are on the mountain top, but give thanks in everything. Well that got me thinking a bit more.
Then this week, Gary and I listened to the messages from some of the brethren at Little Union last Sunday. Since the Church was unable to find a minister to fill in last Sunday some of the brothers in the Church gave testimony of what great things the Lord has done for them, and told of things that the Lord had laid on their heart. Bro. Jamie posted the messages to the Churchwebsite, and then Bro. Matt wrote a little more about his thoughts. And well, that got me thinking some more.
I choose on our blog to only record the happenings, to give little happy snippets into our life. I don't use this as a place to gripe and complain, or to moan and cry. I don't think it edifies anyone, it doesn't make for good reading, I'm not trying to get sympathy, and frankly I don't know that I like those inner feelings out on the internet for any and everyone to read. Some people are great at balancing the trials and joys of everyday life with amazing grace and a touch of humor (I can think of a few blogs I stalk that fit that description), but I'm not sure that I'm able to do that. So sometimes when I can't find something interesting to report or can't stop a little whiny voice in my writing, I'm absent a little while.
These thoughts got me thinking though. Sometimes we should be real with one another and real look at ourselves, our lives, our attitudes and evaluate what we see. I will confess that I can make a very long un-thankful list. To top it off would be the startling, and frightening revelation...
We have been without work, gainful employment, a real job, a career for my husband for over two years now.
Believe me, I am a control freak, an organizer, a planner of things, I like to know what is coming and in great detail to prepare for it. I do not like uncertainty, out of the routine, or flying by the seat of my pants. (I even envy a little those who can seem to so easy roll with the punches and handle whatever happens along, making major course changes with no stress, map, stars, or other visible guiding factors). I cannot tell you how many times Gary and I have said, if we just knew the date and the job that we would have next, this would be so much easier.
HOWEVER, even in this great trial there have been so very many blessings. Gary has often said what a joy it is to spend this much time with the kids, most working parents miss so much of a child's life in the day to day happenings, not big things necessarily, just the every day things. And while Gary might enjoy missing the finger painting on the walls with dirty diapers, the truth is that he has had the remarkable joy of spending 24 hours a day with our children. Britt was 8 months old when Gary lost his job. What a blessing to spend that much time together the four of us as a family. What a blessing I have had to have him at home to tag team on diaper changes, feeding children, and handling messes. I get to sit and eat lunch with him each and every day, while the kids take a nap. These little things when you stop and think how rare they are in today's world are a great blessing. After all what may appear to be little and insignificant isn't really. We take for granted often the rising and setting sun, the fact that we wake up each morning, but each day is a gift, a gift from God. What is even more amazing is God's providential care for us in the big things. We have not had any major illnesses or accidents in this time without health insurance. Due to the generosity of the Church and our family, we have never been without food, a home, clothing for the kids, or gas money. In fact, we have had more than our needs met. Every time I start crunching numbers and panicking, Gary finds a part time or temporary position, or we find a letter in the mail box where someone had us on their heart. A truely humbling experience, a great blessing from God when you stop to consider it. Too great to truly grasp perhaps, definitely too great for words.
You know there are many things that Gary and I regularly thank the Lord for at night, our children, good health, "all of Your many rich blessings" is a phrase Gary often uses. But even in times of hardship, even when all looks hopeless, there are things that we can find to be thankful for. Because even when the valley is dark and deep and oh so lonely, even when I stumble and wonder can He hear our prayers, why does nothing get better, there are many blessings even then. He is the Lily of the Valley. He is in the valley and along the way He can be seen if we just look around. Too often I am too busy looking around and wondering when will we have a job, when will life no longer be on hold, when can we have more children, when can we have a house of our own, when this, when that. There is nothing wrong with any of those things, but I find that the problem is that I am too busy focusing on the "when" of non guaranteed future blessings, to enjoy the blessings that we already have right at this very moment. Life isn't on hold, it's happening each day, all around us, each moment.
This Thanksgiving I am thankful for more than the food and the family, not to diminish those, but there is so much more I can be thankful for. I am thankful for the continued providence of God in our lives. I am thankful for the Lord who sees and cares. I am thankful for what may be seemingly small, every day blessings. I am thankful for even the valleys, because how else would we know the blessed glory of the mountain tops without the darkness of the valleys.
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