Rebecca,

You are 9 Months old today.  It is amazing how you continue to grow.  I think you've put on a bit of a growth spurt.  Two weeks ago we used the last of the size two diapers, opened up the size three, and packed up all the remaining 3-6 month clothes and pulled out the 6-9 month clothes.  And now this week, some of the 6-9 month sleepers are almost too small?!?  You made it back on the weight chart at 5% and the growth chart at 10% for height.

You are still a busy bee.  In the last week and a half you have managed to stand up unassisted in the middle of the room almost daily.  Once or twice you have even managed it without using something to get to a standing position.  You aren't able to make more than 5 or 10 seconds but it's a start.  You have really mastered climbing stairs now, and I have to try to keep the baby gate up, which is harder than it sounds since the other two are completely potty trained and the only bathroom is upstairs.

Your eating has improved by leaps and bounds.  It doesn't take 45 minutes to feed you a like before.  You continue to take four or five 8oz bottles a day.  Plus we have a thing of baby food with oatmeal each morning about 10:30 or 11.  You have another meal at 5.  In the last week and a half we have also started giving you food from the table.  In keeping with what you did and didn't like with baby food.  You have really liked small green beans, carrots, and things like pancakes.  You really can't stand corn or potatoes in any form - regular or sweet.  You have had a little bit of chicken from soup, but I plan to start you on a little more meat this coming month.  I'm hoping to start phasing out the baby food too, since there are only a few things that you haven't tried.  Instead I'm eager to get you on table food so that you can eat what the rest of us are eating.

Your favorite toys continue to be your vibrating cow, to chew on a pacifier, the toy dog, and owl lovey.  But you are developing a keen interest in baby dolls.  Ruth doesn't like to share though.  Ahna found a second little doll so that you could play with one too, but Ruth insists that she is "pretending it is my doll too."  You two have spent alot of time this month playing together with the little kitchen, and I enjoy watching you together.

Kita and you are also fun to watch.  She completely ignored you, until you started pulling up about two months ago.  She got overly interested, and you suddenly got afraid.  Over the last few weeks, as she has calmed down more in the house, you have gotten to be more curious and not afraid unless you feel like she is moving too fast.

You seem to have moved past the worst of your separation anxiety.  It is still obvious that you prefer me, but aren't quite so fussy for me as you were.  You have upped your fussing, partly due to the rediculous amount of teeth you decided to cut all at the same time.  The day after my last post, you started three.  One came in quickly (the one on bottom) the other two started coming in about two weeks later, one is still only barely through.  Three more teeth started very quickly about a week and a half ago, all of which are mostly in.  They have caused you alot of fussing.  You have also gotten to be more of a handful in Church over the last three Sundays.  After about the first 40 minutes of preaching, you start insisting on getting up.  The second I stand up with you the fussing stops.  Daddy has started having me pop you and bring you back in.  I know we always start around this time with your "training" but as small as you are, it's so hard to do.  You just look so much younger than you are.

You are finally started to talk a little.  You say ma-ma and da-da pretty well.  You still use Momma meaning "pick me up," but you also will pat me and smile and say it.  Melts my heart.  You sometimes open and close your hand down by your side when we tell you bye-bye and you have started saying "ba-ba" just this week.  Britt is also convinced that you say "Bee" for him.  I'm not so sure about that one though.

You continue to entertain and amaze, and we often stop to think about just how blessed we are.  We love you!

Momma

So, it's November again, and for those of you who haven't been following along over on Facebook, it's the time of year that everyone begins posting all the things they are thankful for.  Rather than doing one a day until Thanksgiving, I opted to just do 20 Days of Thankfulness this year, because today we are heading to Alabama, and who knows how often I'll actually check in while we are gone.  This year I'm doing a count down from small things I'm thankful for to the things I'm most grateful for, just to be different, since everyone else is pretty much doing the exact opposite.  I've posted these nightly on Facebook, but to recap, and add today's...

Day 1 of my 20 Days of Thankfulness - Food
Tonight, I'm going to start with food. I have never truly been without, and when you stop to consider the plight of so many others in the world, that is really truly amazing. Even when we were out of work, we always had food on the table. Furthermore, we've never had to exist on a tiny portion of rice and beans either, it is rare that we have a meal with no meat. We always have enough left overs for lunch the next day, and have been blessed with so much. Thank you Lord, for an abundance of food. (And especially bacon, and chocolate, and...)
I got to thinking about my list, and food really should have been day 11, but in any event, along that line I am thankful for dishwashers. Every single time we live in a house without one I say never again, and then we end up in another house without one. I have a really pretty brand new one, sitting in the wrapping, just waiting for Gary to get the lines run. Today I am thankful for all those marvelous time saving devices in my kitchen that mean I don't have to spend 23 hours a day in that room. I don't have to traipse out in the cold to milk a cow, fetch butter from a spring house, chop and bring in wood for the stove to cook bacon and biscuits. I have a toaster oven and microwave for when we are in a hurry. I have a great blender and coffee pot as well. All these things free up more time to spend with the kids, to laze around on a Saturday watching football with Gary, to load rediculous numbers of pictures to Facebook and stay in touch with all of you, to spend time not cleaning and prepping for the next meal during quiet time but reading the word or even taking a nap along with the kids. I'm very thankful for my modern conveniences, and I'll be even more thankful when Gary gets my dishwasher hooked up. Hint, hint.
I am thankful for digital cameras. Moments like now when Britt and Ruth and Daddy are playing wii, and Britt blasts his 11th stroke back all the way almost to the front of the fairway. I can save videos to watch later when I am trying to remember why we had a kid, let alone more. I can capture in still pictures the crazy look in Britt's eyes when he laughs, Ruth's pudgy pouty checks, and Rebecca's serious looks. I can take loads of crummy pictures and only keep my best, and one of these days I will learn how to use it and take spectacular pictures.
Tonight I am thankful for my computer, and all the interesting people that live in it. After a day of no adult conversations, where all talk revolves around dinosaurs, poop, and "where is my monkey?" It's nice to be able to dust off my brain and check in with the rest of the world. Besides, it's what keeps me going on Monday. Because while I am stellar at organizing, I HATE to clean, so I bribe myself to finish the next job, and then I can check in on Facebook. No matter what's going on or what time it is, there's always someone else to talk to and procrastinate with. The internet is an amazing revolution to life as we know it when we stop and think about it. The kids could get on skype last night with the grandparents. I can check out prices and reviews on just about anything before we go and buy it. I can even balance the checkbook and pay bills while doing the laundry. Talk about multitasking. The best part though, is being able to share snippets of our day, and check in on everyone else. And know that even when everything in our world today is up in the air, there is still something right in your corner of the world, and when it's not we can always encourage and pray for one another.
I am thinkful for my bed. I started today at 6:20, in order to make my doctors appointment and lab work at 7. I came home tag teamed out with Gary so he could head into work late, we did haircuts, and made it back home for lunch and 5 hours of school. Then I headed to Harrisburg where I swung by Staples before making Mothers Night Out with our STARS Homeschool Co-op. I made it back to the house about 10:30. Since then I have finished lesson plans for this week and next, and Gary and I have gone over some fun budget stuff, since he didn't review it the other day. After a crazy busy day there is nothing I am more thankful for than our foam, ever so soft, fluffy bed, piled high with blankets and down comforters. Night all!
Tonight I'm really thankful for a house to live in. It's not ours, who knows if we'll ever have one of our own. It's not the Biltmore Estates. It doesn't have every modern high style commodity, but it's the place we currently call home. It's dry and relatively warm. It's mostly de-varmintized. (Love how I just invented a word there, dontcha?) I've gotta admit after 8 months of work, I'm happy with what we've been able to do here. The look of delight on Ruth's face with her purple room. Britt's excitement over getting to have a dinosaur shelf AND a horse shelf in his room. Seeing Gary mold into his falling apart chair at the end of the week. I think having a house with space to stretch out in, and yard to run wild in, a place to call home is about as close to satisfied as we can get this side of glory. It might not be much, but it's ours and I'm so thankful for it.
I am thankful for our car it's good reliable transportation, through some very generous help from my grandparents while we were unemployed it is also paid for. It gets us around town, it even takes us on the 260 mile roundtrip to Church each Sunday, and I've never heard it complain. It's taken us on countless trips to see the family keeping the road warm between Alabama and Florida. It handled a blizzard in Iowa right before Christmas last year when we drove out and back for a job interview. To have a car that works with room to pile all of us and our stuff into, without a car payment currently hanging over our head is one less worry, especially for me when I have such a talent of worrying over the worse case scenario for everything.
And while I was going to save this one for later, while I'm on this topic. I'm thankful for our extended family. Gary and I were both raised by good people, with loving and giving grandparents. They gave us their time, they did things for us, and made priceless memories. We have amazing aunts and uncles that not only provided us with the cousins we ran wild with but balanced love and accountability. Who were sympathetic when our parents were so "mean" and yet steered us back toward them. They were the people that encouraged us and keep us going when we were out of work. Rather than discourage and tear down they gave money, they helped with the kids, and they let us know any time they heard of a new job opening. They packed us up and sent us off when Gary went back to school and when we found work. They repaired and worked on houses to be sure that the kids had a good, safe home. No man is an island unto himself, and we wouldn't be were we are today without our families.
I'm very thankful for heat. Those of you who know me much at all, know that I'm am always cold. I doesn't bother me to wear my jeans and a 3/4 sleeve shirt most of the summer. It's 72 in Florida all winter and I've got on the thin sweaters and long sleeve shirts. We got to visit my in-laws meat locker, I mean house, and I'm sitting under a blanket on the couch. That's just me, I'm always on the cold side. Now that winter is rapidly approaching and the wind is up, and the temps are steadily dropping, I'm incredibly grateful for HEAT! I think the cost is outrageous, I didn't even know that people heated their house with anything other than a normal A/C - Heating unit. But I'm very thankful for heat, for electric blankets, for Gary getting up to get me hot chocolate, so that I can stay huddled under said electric blankets with the heat blasting. It would be a long cold winter, where I slept all day and never climbed out of bed without heat.
Tonight I am thankful for a clear mind. Though some of you might be willing to debate that I have a mind about me, that I've not lost all my sense, or that I ever had any mind in the first place; I am thankful for a clear mind. I can meditate on all the blessings the Lord has given me. I can study His word. I can solve all the world's problems from the passenger seat of the car while Gary drives home. Ok, so I might not be that talented. I have watched many dear Elders so strong in the faith as their minds grow dim before they pass away. I have seen many others that never had the ability to deeply ponder all of those amazing things that make up life. While, it carries the dual burden of also worrying and stressing. I think it enables us to see the beauty in life all the clearer because we understand the troubles and hardships. I hope that I might always possess my right mind.
I am thankful for Gary's job. I think this will easily make my top 10 list every year for the rest of our lives. I will never be able to adequately explain the fear, the uncertainty, the trauma of not having a job. To this day I cannot explain how we survived so long other than to say God Almighty Himself sustained us. I would have never willing signed up to living in the great Arctic North, above the Mason-Dixon line. However, unemployment gives you a whole new perspective. I was gung-ho about the move to Pennsylvania. What is even more unbelievable is that for the first time in married life I feel like we are actually making financial progress. Gary has a good paying job where he enjoys going to work each day, and Lord willing, this one appears to be a job for the long haul. We know that this job and each paycheck is a gift from the Lord, and I am so thankful for a small amount of financial security and peace of mind that steady work brings. It is definitely a huge blessing that I won't be taking for granted ever again.
I am thankful for our health. You may know that I have been working on Button Buddies for one special kid. We have spent a lot of time praying and talking about several special kids. Perhaps, I was just really sheltered and didn't know how good I had it, but growing up I can't think of anyone I knew who struggled with any serious illness. Maybe it is more common now, maybe I just am more aware. So many struggle with such serious problems, and I know my problems are just "first world" problems. I have no idea why God has been so gracious to our little family. None of my children, Gary or myself have experienced any major health problem. We are no better than anyone else, we don't some how deserve better than normal health. And yet it is another blessing that has been freely granted to us. I am so thankful for our good health, and continue to pray that the Great Physician would grant healing to those others we so love.
I am thankful for our newest addition - Rebecca! You knew I was counting down to the kids, you just didn't know when I would get there. I am starting with Rebecca because she had a particularly great day. Oh course, she so rarely has bad days, she is our easy, happy go lucky child. I have enjoyed her as a baby more than the others, but then again, maybe you just enjoy the one that's currently giving you the most snuggles. She is so eager to do what everyone else does, that she never stops moving - crawling, pulling up, cruising, just bouncing, and now sometimes even standing without holding on. She is so excited that we have started some finger food this week, and wants what everyone else is eating. It is amazing to watch her eagerness in all things. She loves me best, says Mama anytime she is upset, and real does give the best snuggles. And oh! The way she laughs when you cover her in kisses. I love you, Sweetness and Thank God for you! I am thankful for Ruth. She has gotten so "grown up" in the last 6 months. She holds her head and hands just so when she is making a point, and she has her own opinions about everything. Today in the car Britt asked if animals go to Heaven. I told him that some people thinks so, but I don't. The little copy cat said I don't think so either, and Ruth pipped up with, "well I know there are animals in Heaven." Still later we were talking about how I don't like Coke, I like Dr. Pepper, but Daddy likes Coke. Britt who cannot taste the difference says I only like Dr. Pepper, while Ruth chimes in "I like it all." She picked out a bazillion things for Christmas today, and when I told her that Momma and Daddy would be getting her only 3 things her reply was "well it would be ok to get some things now too." I can see some of my own OCD tendencies in her, just in weird areas, like always wearing her jewelry just so or her bow on the same side as Hello Kitty. Her Daddy has always called her "sweetheart" though she insist her name is Ruth, I think of her as a cross between 100% pure condensed sunshine and a firecracker. I picked out her name in high school, and day dreamed what she might be like, but she is better than any thing I thought up. I am incredibly blessed to call her my daughter. I am thankful for Britt. The little boy made me a Momma. He is so strong willed, so curious, so determined. He is my little Auburn fan and he just laughed himself silly tonight at seeing Aubie dressed up as Thor. He so tender-hearted and wants to know why he can't make things better, and says he is all grown up and a super hero so he will rescue everyone. He is eager to fix and help around the house and is growing into a a real helper. He is both incredibly frustrating some days and incredibly amazing. I can't imagine how my life would have been the last 5 years with out him. I am thankful for my dearest Gary Britt. He is such a blessing in my life. He sacrifices so much to take care of us, and never complains. I have often asked him why he sticks around despite the fact that I am strong willed, not so submissive, and sometimes just downright unlovable. He could trade me in for a newer year model that actually cooks. I worry that sometimes I am more burden than helpmeet. He always tells me that it is only a good burden, and that he stays around not because he promised me that he would if I would behave, but because he promised God that he would regardless of anything else. That attitude and devotion in all things is an amazing blessing in a husband. I love you, and thank God for you daily dearest. I'm thankful for the blessing of the Word. I have often said, that Christ could have come and saved us, and never told us what he did. But He gives us His word that we might have joy here in knowing that this life is not it. That we don't need to fret and worry and be anxious over the future because He paid it all. The gospel is good news! Throughout history it wasn't as readily available as it is today. Sometimes a family or congregation would only have a book, or a few chapters. Sometimes they would cram and memorize as much as possible because they weren't guaranteed to be able to keep that. Other times they weren't able to read the scripture for themselves, either because they were incapable of reading, or in other times because they didn't speak the language of the scriptures. How blessed indeed are we today, that we have the Bible, that we can read it, that we don't fear someone seizing it from our homes. And yet, how often do we take this immense blessing for granted? We should be the most well versed people of the ages, and how often do we let them sit gathering dust? I have tried to be more diligent in reading the scriptures, but often fall short. We should never forget what a blessing they are to have. I am thankful for the Church. God made us to be sociable creatures, and we are born into families, but Psalms 68:6 talks of something even sweeter than our natural families, "God setteth the solitary in families:" I believe this points ahead to the Church. Some may not have their natural families with them anymore, or maybe others are estranged, but through adoption God makes us His Children, and then we can enjoy the blessings of the Church the fellowship of like minded people of our Brothers and Sisters in Christ. I have been a member of three different local Churches now and can attest that we need one another for encouragement and correction. I feel immensely blessed to have found Old Carroll and Bro. Jonathan who has a wonderful gift to pastor. God knew what he was doing when he instituted the Church, and everything about the way it is structured is for our good. may we never take it for granted nor neglect in attendance or in our duty toward in supporting her with not only our money but our time and prayers as well.

Over the last few weeks while Momma and Britt clean the bathroom, and do other little chores upstairs.  Momma will let me and Ruth play together in our room in the floor.  She told Ruth to teach me all about how to play with our dolls and kitchen, but I think it's because if she doesn't give Ruth a job then she runs off and leaves me and I don't like that.  She sets us up, and then shuts us in, so that I don't get any ideas about falling down the stairs or getting into bathroom cabinets.


Ruth seems to take this job way too seriously though.  Just this week she fussed at me for spilling tea that I couldn't see.  I like it when she feeds me pretend baby food.  I'm very good at that game.  Sometimes she lets me hold the baby dolls, but she's kinda stingy with those things.  Britt is good at sharing with me, but Ruth not so much.  Sometimes Britt comes and plays with us after he is done cleaning.

In school, Momma reads puppies, hahahaha, books.  Books like Three Little Piggies, and books about dinosaurs.  Sometimes I read books with the little man.  He calls me munchkin, it makes me laugh.  Sometimes me coloring.  I color pictures, haha.  Pictures of dinosaurs.  I like dinosaurs.  Plesiosaurus is my favorite.  Sometimes we have music for school.  My favorite song is "Tinkle, tinkle little star, like a diamond in the sky.  Tinkle, tinkle little star, like a diamond in the sky."  We don't do Bible verses for school, we do them at bedtime.  I like doing Bible verses.  Sometimes we play math games like dominoes, like go fish, like finding numbers.  I play leap pad sometimes for school.  I like to play the math one best for Princess and the Frog.

(Ruth's Bible verses so far have been Ephesians 6:1, I John 4:19, Psalms 56:3, Genesis 1:1, Psalms 6:13, and now she and Britt are both learning Ephesians 4:29.)

My violin broke, at my birthday I want a new violin.  I mean my fiddle.  I like a fiddle because it has strings. And because it has a handle at the back so that you can hold it without dropping it and breaking it and messing up the strings.  I'm going to learn "A Smile on my Face."


I am going to get instruments at my birthday, and maybe some at Christmas.  I also want a guitar, like a dulcimer, one that you play laying down.  I think I would like a banjo too.  And maybe a co-net (clarinet) it's a whistle and it is black or maybe a trumpet.  Well, I can't play them all at once, so I'll keep them where no bad guys can get them, and I'll set one down when I get done, somewhere safe, and then get another one.


I play instruments and so does the guys on my music cd (that would be Alison Krauss and Union Station).  Grumps plays a guitar and he has a banjo.  I want him to play it for me, so I can see how it sounds, cause I don't have one.  He has the bestest banjo I've never seen.  Uncle Matthew plays a piano.  I like it because all you need is your fingers for it, and you don't even have to hold it.  Brother Jonathan has a guitar and a piano.


Maybe after I have enough birthdays to get all my instruments I will get a punching bag next like Captain America.

• I love mangoes and citrus baby food.
• Today Glorianna's "Wild Heart" came on the radio, and by the end I was wearing half of my mangoes because I was too busy dancing, Momma has decided no more radio while I am eating.
• I've started eating table food this week and I hate mashed potatoes but love Green Beans.
• Daddy finally caught me climbing the stairs.
• I like to walk along pushing Britt's big trucks.
• My bottom tooth is all the way in.
• The top two eye teeth are starting to come in so I am experimenting with screaming like a banshee all my waking hours.

First we got pumpkins.  We got them and bring them home.  We got four mules at Walmart (that would be thermals for the rest of us).  Me put them on at home under my Belle dress.  They keep you warm, warm, warm.  Momma took three pictures and then we went to eat supper.  We eat pizza!  Daddy had pizza that was bread all around (a calzone).  I wanted purple pizza, but they didn't have it.  Then I wanted pink and purple pizza, but someone ate it all, because no one had it.  Then we went to Halloween to get candy.

















That picture of me trick or treating is a bad picture because me hurt my lip.  I fell down on the rocks, and me got hurt.  It bleed alot.  It very hurt.  It hurts when me do that (she's opening her mouth really wide to show me again).  My hands got dirty but not my dress.  That was really good.

This is going to be a sneaky one, because bad guys are trying to find us to take our money.  This one is going to be about dinosaurs, learning to read by yourself, and Happy Halloween.  First, dinosaurs.  I want to tell you about triceratops and T. Rex.  Triceratops has horns and T. Rex has claws.  T. Rex has sharp teeth and Triceratops has a frill.  Triceratops has a tail and T. Rex has a skinny back.  T. Rex is bipedal with two feet and Triceratops has four feet he walks on back feet and front feet, quadrupedal.  Brachiosaurus eats plants and he uses his tail like a whip.  Sometimes raptors like Deinonychus sneak up on him and eat him.  T. Rex's don't have gizzards, only plant eaters.


I'm learning to read by myself.  That means I can read all my books by myself.  I love Momma.  She is teaching me.  Thank you.  I'm learning by playing lots, and lots, and lots of games.  They came last week in a big box.  I also got a song I love in that box.  And some workbooks.  I started the first one today.  I played some games in it.  I cutted pictures out and glued them all by myself for the first time.  I also practiced writing my name, that's what it's called when you draw letters.  I did it four times.  Just B-r-i-t-t, Momma drew my last name too, but I told her it was too long, so she said we would practice it another time.  Thank you, thank you, thank you for my game for learning to read by myself.  I love you Momma and Granddaddy that was a good game to get.


Also, thank you Mister for making me some gingerman cookies, I am going to come and eat them soon.  It is 2 weeks till Thanksgiving, and then 2 weeks to Christmas and then 2 weeks to see you and then 2 weeks till my birthday.  Thank you Memaw for getting me those oreo cookies when we went swimming at that hotel that time.  I forgot to say thank you.  I got lots of trick or treats for Happy Halloween, that's treats you can eat.  My favorite candy is the tootsie rolls.  I was Prince Phillip, but I left my sword at the house and forgot to carry it then I left my helmet behind at someone else's house.  I liked Happy Halloween, and it's my favorite holiday now.