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The Joy of My Salvation

 

Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation. ~Habakkuk 3:18

I was Muslim for the day today. It was a wonderful, eye opening sort of experience. I have been spending much of the semester thoroughly investigating Islamic women, particularly in Iran and Pakistan for a 30 page paper. I turned it in on Thursday and gave my 20 minute presentation today. It was something I learned a world from, something that I think ALL Christians should study, and that we would profit from. Islam is more than a faith, but it’s also a way of life, very different from your average Christian. It literally is a concern in every aspect of life, and unless we understand it, we cannot understand why people in the Middle East for example act the way they do. Likewise we would know that terrorists are the exception not the rule, that everything they do is in violation of the Koran, and that they are formed by a lot of patriarchal practices left over from the days before Islam, and of practices they picked up from conquering lands. In truth the Islamic practice of hiding the hair means lots of things to lots of women from freedom to be Muslim, to having an honorable place in a man’s world, to being non-Western, to piety, to everything. We automatically assume that it is oppression but that’s not necessarily the case.

So for my presentation today I wore a hijab (head scarf) which covered all of my hair, and left my cross under my shirt. I got up and got ready for school, did the school thing, and went to lunch where I met Nahel who provided my scarf and much help. (She is from Saudi Arabia, and this is her first year at UNA.) I had to eat a turkey sandwich not the usual bacon and ham. Then I went to class and about beat a friend who attempted to “liberate” my hair. It was windy today, and though I’ve been practicing at home I haven’t worn it out so, I had to adjust it in the bathroom a few times, to keep it from slipping. I then had to run to Best Buy after school and I wore it out, and kept in on to go by a guy friend’s house. At supper I didn’t drink wine (alcohol like pork is forbidden to them), and tonight I came home finally with a new perspective.

I am so very thankful that I was blessed (for there is no other explanation) to be born in a country, to parents, in the Primitive Baptist faith, where I can make my own decisions and follow my own dreams. I have always been glad to have these things, but I never understood just how oppressed I might have been elsewhere. I mean lets face it I am not as submissive as I would like let alone, as submissive as Islam requires. Here I can dress as I like, speak on what I like, do what I like for a living, and there are no real rules. I can marry and work, I can go to school, I can wear blue jeans and my hair blowing all crazy like in the wind.

On the other hand, I was surprised in many ways. When I put on the hijab today and walked out of the house I felt humbler, I felt a weight that constantly reminded me of submission to God. Not that wearing a veil some how made me more religious, spiritual, humble, or whatever, but that it was an ever present thought. I got lots of strange looks, from students, from teachers, from an older Muslim lady who scowled at me because my bangs were attempting to slide out from under it. I was glad that I was treated respectfully by everyone and no one was mean, granted I don’t look Arabic, but everyone assumed that I was Muslim. I accidentally circled the sandwich with bacon on it at lunch and the girl automatically changed it saying, I know you can’t eat pork. I had people who didn’t recognize me just because I had on a hijab, that part was a little disconcerting. It was a unique experience, but I’m still glad I’m not Muslim.
4:40 AM 4 random thoughts
Finally the long promised post with pictures from the trip my dad and I took up to the University of North Carolina. It was a trip of epic proportions. Ok maybe not quite. It was a very long trip in a very small car with lots of textbooks.

The best part about doing this trip at the beginning of November was the color in the trees. I love trees as we all know. So the best part of the trip was really in East Tennessee. We took several pictures but the entire trip was rainy and misty so few of them show the color very well. This one would be an example, Daddy took it at the little rest stop right before you get to Chat. He was all excited because now he has a picture of everyone right here with in a few months span. The trees in North Carolina weren't as pretty. There was lots and lots of yellow, but very little orange and red. You know they don't have an over abundance of maples.


I got to talk to some professors, sit in a class, wander around campus, soaking up the sights and sounds. Boy is it a beautiful college. In fact Daddy decided that's where I am going because it is so very pretty. Of course for me there is the additional historical value and beautiful historical buildings on campus. UNC was the first public college in the nation, and still has the oldest public school building. Originally built in 1793 as a dorm and classroom. It was expanded in 1822, and today is a working dorm building. Cool huh? There was the most beautiful library, which houses the largest collection of Southern manuscripts in the world. We also hung out by the old well, which in reality is looking more like a fountain these days and tasting nothing like well water. Also Daddy discovered what I have dubbed the world's largest sundial. I don't know if it is but it looks big to me. It was also on perfect time the day were were there. I had a few more pictures, but alas, blogspot isn't letting me add anymore. Maybe at a later date. Night all.
11:38 PM No random thoughts
Ok, so orange didn't last all that long. Last weekend there was this beautiful bright red tree in my neighbor's yard, and he was flying the Alabama flag in front of it and I thought on the way to work I need to get a picture of it tomorrow. For those of you who don't know our flag is a white banner with a red X, meaning never surrender. In any event the red on white framed with the towering red tree was gorgeous. But alas when I got home this week, all the leaves were gone. In fact there is no color left at all in Decatur. There has been some hoarfrost on my car in the last few weeks when I leave work, just hard enough for me to get my rotten political science textbook out of the car to scrap off the window. Not tonight. Tonight we had the hard stuff, I sat in the car for seven minutes, singing at the top of my lungs every good song that I could think of that we didn't sing this morning in church, while waiting on the car to defrost. It's sad really, everything at night now is in varying shades of blue, with a little white moonlight and black shadows. It's beautiful don't mistake me, but at the same time I miss the bright happy fall colors.
3:34 AM 4 random thoughts

As afore mentioned the Alabama Renaisance Fair was the last weekend in October right here in downtown Florence. Each year I make, or in the case of last year, get together an outfit: my first year I went as a peasant, the next year I went as a rather modest bar wench, last year I went as a gypsy, and this year for the first time ever I went as a lady.

You have all gotten the condensed version of the Olympian effort my most spectacular Grandmother made in getting together an outfit for me in six days, since I have been tied up all semester unable to make one. We went and picked out some beautiful fabric on Sunday, little did we know that Jacquards are notorious for fraying. We went with period colors and fabrics, after all I am a history major, these things actually matter to me. The next problem is that all the marroonish colored stuff you see, there was no pattern for how to lay and cut the pieces. So Grandmother let me tackle that and after some inventive manuvering, I managed to put together a lay-out and got them cut out. The next adventure was that we put the front left on the right and the right front on the left and had this huge waist and miniscule bust. It was a great 30 minute effort to figure out that we hadn't actually read the pieces correctly. The third great challenge was the fantastic collar. The directions simply said attach at notches. So my wonderfully talented Grandmother spent several hours reworking the pattern and experimenting with the sewing machine until she worked it out as I watched most amazedly. Well, bad things supposedly come in threes so we thought we were set. Well, not quite. She finished putting it all together and trimmed the seems and everything while I was in Florence for the week. When I got back she worried it would be too big, but after getting into it, we discovered that it was a smigen tight. If I had worn a corset it would have been find, but Grandmother worried over the four pulls that could be seen. A $15 historical circlet from online, and some $10 not even close to historical shoes rounded the outfit out.

The Saturday of Ren Faire the wonderful affore mentioned brother helped me get ready. I begged and begged him to come with me, but he declined. So we treaked around the apartment looking for the perfect tree for pictures. (Matthew has an eye for these things.) While taking pictures a lady came out and insisted on getting one of the both of us.

So then the adventure began. I went down to the park and walked around the fountain, paid homage to our king and queen, and started bartering with the venders. I managed to spend too much money (which I justified by the fact that I won't be here to go next year), however I came away with several steals: two silver tankards with some nice scrollwork and a veltine lined box for them, a new grey cloak (which I have been wearing to church), a battle-ready dagger with a deer antler hilt, and several flags. I managed to get the Irish province flag and the Erin Ga Brauh flag for myself and two for my little brother for Christmas. Sunday, Grandmother agreed to let me
wear the dress to church, and afterwards I spent two more hours at Ren Faire. I got my hair done up, and if I ever get my film developed I'll add a pic on here. Then I spent the day sketching rather poorly tents and venders and people.

It was fantastic. I had so many compliments on the dress, so everyone in Florence knows that MY Grandmother is the best seemstress ever. I even had one vender as I was meandering through the festival grounds tell me that I didn't just have the dress but that I had the "walk and the aire of a lady." I just thanked him and laughed, maybe for a day I did, but we all know better, I'm pretty clumsy and graceless. HA.

The Ren Faire was great really. There were the usual fire eaters, tinklers, bakers, and blacksmiths. Only the leather armorers were not in attendance. The faire's herald, announced the events at the Northern Winter Stage, according to the time on our wrist sundials. I even saw a few friends so that the entire five hour or so wanderings were not spent alone. If you ever have the chance to attend a Ren Faire I strongly encourage it. Alright, that's it for me for tonight. I will hail you all at a later time, after all my wrist sundial isn't working, but I'm reckoning that it is very late.
1:54 AM 4 random thoughts
Some of you who know me know that I was a pain to raise. I was not an easy child, by any means. I was and to some degree am still very hard-headed, stubborn, set in my ways, blah blah blah. All in all these are only good when clinging to the things God gave us, and for the other things, not so good at all. I have not always been a very good daughter, nor have always been so thankful for the wonderful blessing that my family truely is. Therefore I am going to take a few moments to point out a few of the wonderful people in my family.

I have the greatest grandmother ever. I went to her fourth Sunday, and asked if there was anyway that she would have time to help me make an outfit for Ren Faire in a week. I go every year, and because of work and other constraints didn't have time to make an outfit. She said that she wasn't doing anything and that we could go and look for material with my aunt and cousin that afternoon. Several hours later we had the most amazing fabric. Then the next morning I went over and we pinned the pattern down, and cut out all the pieces. That night after work I came back and she had the dress together, all that was left to make was the collar to go on it, and attaching the sleeves. Come to find out she had all kinds of doctor's appointments that week, and the pattern wasn't very clear, but she worked grandmotherly magic and what do you know but when I came back into town she had a perfectly fitted and loverly outfit. She didn't have to do it, but she wanted to because I asked and it made me happy. She really went out of her way, and I love her even more after realizing what an inconvience it must have been.

I also have the greatest dad ever. He took off of work this past Wednesday and Thursday to drive me to North Carolina. I could have gone alone, and found the place and been ok, but he came anyway, because he knew I wanted him to come. He drove (with his back already hurting him) for 11 hours (we ended up in traffic in Knoxville for an hour), and slept on a not so great bed (especially compared to the one at home) without mother to go with me. It let me work on my 300 notecards, and was a calming influence with me being so nervous. We agreed on music and talked about all sorts of stuff on the way there and back. I was almost sad for the trip to end. Even crazier, he's agreed to go to 2 more schools, just this month with me. Isn't that amazing sweet.

I also have the greatest mother ever. She made me chocolate oatmeal drop cookies last night, a whole big container. Just because I like them. She also washed all my laundry last weekend and this one, while I was at work. It was really great because I usually do my own, and I didn't even ask her to do it.

I also have the greatest brother ever. Matthew lives with me and puts up with me enough said. He does most of the housecleaning, though I cook for us every night I'm in town. He always washes and I dry the dishes. He puts up with me studying late into the night on my bed (not even a good three feet from him trying to sleep). He puts up with me hitting the snooze button about 8 times on average every morning. He puts up with me begging to watch just one more episode of Angel at 1 am. He deals with my moodiness and depression, and all and all he is always supportive, uplifting, and funny.

He is also going to be the greatest brother forever, if he will show me how to upload my photos from Ren Faire and North Carolina on here. When he does, I will give you the full story for the events as promised.
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