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The Joy of My Salvation

 

Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation. ~Habakkuk 3:18

In Carl Carmer's book on "Stars Fell On Alabama" he makes some comment in the Author's Note, that Alabama is a strange country, a foreign land, in which he sojourned for awhile, but from which he has now returned. (I would quote it but, alas I left the book at my parents.)

I went to Florida this weekend to see my dear fellow. Let me tell you it is a strange country. They don't have real trees. They are all super short, not so bad as the trees in Texas, but not real trees. The trees still pretty much have all their leaves and it's almost February. I beginning to wonder if they just kept the same leaves for 20 years, or what. They have moss growing in all the trees which gives everything this creepy sleepy hollow look at night, not to mention it detracts from the beauty of the trees. Even the water is a different color, the ocean is green, not blue like here. Infact the rivers are also greenish and grass really grows in, or maybe on them. There are palm trees everywhere of several sorts, and that just looks super weird. The strangest thing perhaps is the weather. It feels like April. At home we were expecting snow this weekend, there I could have worn shorts and a T-shirt.

North Alabama is beautiful country. Here on the River (aka the Tennessee, for those of you who aren't from here, everything else is a creek in comparison), the trees turn beautiful colors every fall, and with hills and mountains in the background, instead of endless flat land, the sunsets are glorious. Despite the sore lack of beauty in Florida. I am homesick for that foreign land. I will confess I cried when I had to leave. It's hard to go when my heart is in the swamp.

It was a good trip. It was their yearly meeting time, and Brother Ronald Lawrence preached two good sermons (well, he preached more but I heard two). I asked to move my letter on Sunday. I didn't go down there and plan too, but when you get that burden, you can't stay on the bench, you have to get up and go. I got to spend alot of time with Gary's mother and sister since he has strep throat. I wanted to take care of him, but his mom kept running me out, saying that I was sure to get sick. I now have strep in addition to bronchitis, but it was worth it. I only get to see him once a month. It was nice to get to hang out with them.

I'm hoping to have some pictures up soon, but I have yet to get my picture software back on the computer. Well, I will sign off for now, it's past time for bed, and I have an early meeting with a professor in the morning.
2:53 AM 3 random thoughts
***WARNING: this blog is incredibly sedimental, read at your own risk. Also I have had 9 hours of sleep this week, and with inventory going on, I have worked 74.2 hours for the week, so content may be a little more rambly than usually.***

So everyone wants to know about my Gary Britt. I met Gary Britt Cunningham, Jr. through myspace. We have a little Primitive Baptist Friend group, where we discuss scripture, post prayer request, and announce meetings. He posted that Elder Mark Green was going to be at their fall meeting. I had heard Elder Green at Mt. Olive in Culman earlier this summer and felt that he had a great gift from the Lord. I replied that I sure wished I could go. He sent me a message and from November 4 to the Sunday before Thanksgiving we sent emails often more than one, everyday back and forth. When he decided to print them out he was forced to kill part of the palms and the swamp near his home. Then he called the Monday before Thanksgiving, because I had given him my number, and we talked for 1 1/2 hours. Then the next night it was 2 hrs and 20 minutes, then the next night it was almost 5 hours. He wanted to come up Thanksgiving weekend, so I asked him to call and talk to Daddy, and he said of course. I was suppose to tell Daddy Wednesday night, but right after I came in the door, the phone rang and it was him, before I could tell him anything. They all laugh about it now, but Gary said that it was the longest 17 minutes and 52 second phone conversation of his life. Daddy insisted that he stay at the house, and he agreed. So Mother and I did all sorts of industrial cleaning.

I couldn't get off of work at Wendy's on such sort notice, so he meet me there on my break. He then had to go home and meet the family without me. Now, when Daddy brought mother back to Milan for the first time he sat his three sisters down and said, "You three behave, or else." He always said he never knew what they or else would have been, but the threat worked. In the same tone that Daddy always replays the scene in, I looked at the boys, and said, "You three behave. If he is gone before I get there you will all be dead in the morning." When I got home that night, he had flowers, with daisies, which are my favorite, and we sat up talking, until I couldn't stay awake any longer. Then we spent the next day hanging out and watching football with the family. While I was at work they played Balderdash to see whether or not he could be a dating option. haha. On Sunday we rode to church together and since Daddy and I were leaving for South Carolina, we were able to ride together to Atlanta and talk about all sorts of important things.

I asked Daddy what he thought and he told me that he really liked him and that he could come back anytime he liked, for graduation, Christmas, anytime. I told him that I really liked him, and told Mother that he was the man I was going to marry.

He was able to come up for my Graduation/Mallard family Christmas. Because he has been driving up, and traffic was bad in Atlanta, he got here a little after 3 am. He got to meet the cool side of the family, and see us as our crazy selves. Then on Sunday we had the day to our selves. He left Decatur just in time to be back in Plant City to clock in.

Then of course I flew down there (because he won't let me drive) for New Years to meet his family, and was given my engagement ring. Anyway, we have only been able to see each other three times, but Daddy said that he had only seen mother 10 times when they got married. They were 182 miles/3 hours apart, we are 750 miles/10 hours apart.

I use to get so mad when I asked Mother how she knew Daddy was it, and she just said, "I loved to see him coming, hated to see him leave, and overjoyed to get his letters. You just know." She was telling the truth though. I've dated and been engaged before but nothing like this. All summer I spent praying that if the Lord had someone for me, that my only request was that he be a primitive baptist. Then I finally got to a place where I was happy in Him and didn't NEED a fellow. God was all I NEEDED.

We talk about everything. The best thing about Gary is just how seriously he takes those lines where it tells that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the church and gave himself for that. We have spent alot of time talking about Ruth and Boaz lately. He loves to sing, and he loves the Lord's people and his service. I count him as the third greatest gift God has ever given me: 1) Christ on the Cross, 2) knowledge of the truth, and 3) my fellow. He is undoubtably sent to me from the Lord. I have been trying all summer to understand the idea of submission, and now I just understand so much more and I love it. I love to say that "he is better than sliced bread" instead of the best thing since sliced bread. haha.

We have set a wedding date of the first Saturday in July, which just happens to be 07-07-07. It's going to be at his church in Lithia, Florida. I really, really, really, hope ya'll could make it over this way. : )
7:49 PM 4 random thoughts
Well, I wanted to wait and post a picture of my stellar ring. Oh well, much to my surprise. Gary proposed to me this weekend, and I said yes. We are planning to get married at his church, Little Union, in Lithia, Florida, on July 7, 2007.

We had talked about it and been praying a great deal about it. HOWEVER, I had no idea that he called and talked to my dad while I was at work on Friday or Saturday. I got to meet the entire family and church on Sunday and then Sunday night on the way to church he was praying, so I bowed my head and closed my eyes. When he parked and finished, he turned and said, "I love you, Danielle. Will you marry me?"

I couldn't be happier, and I know that we haven't known each other that long, but Mother was right when she always told me that when you find the one, you just know. It's true I just know. For the best advice, in my entire life, thank you Brett. You were right as always!

As for the ring, he clearly spent too much money, and I keep trying to tell him that I'm pretty sure I'm not worth that, but he won't hear of it. I hope all of ya'll can come, but I know that it's a long way away, and just hope you'll be praying for me!

MUCH, MUCH happiness, and MUCH, MUCH more praising the Lord for blessings beyond my dreams that I will never deserve.
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